Excuses Block Progression! by Queen Diva
Today's Diva's Diamonds: 4/12/21
Excuses Block Progression! There are times in our lives when we want to avoid doing what we really need to do. I am guilty of it sometimes myself. But there is no way that you can truly move forward and be successful if you give excuses. You have to do the work!
Excuses Block Progression! Take for example you are in a relationship for a while and things just do not seem to go any farther than a certain point. You may have an unbalanced relationship where one person gives more than the other or they give excuses to why they are not able to trust. If you do not talk to your significant other you are blocking progression for you to work towards having a healthy, loving and productive relationship.
Excuses Block Progression! Maybe you are in class and prior to you taking this new class you never had to study and learning different subject matter has always be easy for you. But in this particular class it is challenging and you never really learned how to study. You are falling behind and yet you are making excuses to why you are failing the truth is you haven't tried to get organized, disciplined and committed to working towards progression.
Excuses Block Progression! Make a decision today to change your thinking, do not give excuses to why things are not falling into place or you do not want to try. If you care about fixing your relationship or passing your class then push through, take responsibility on your part in the situation and fully take ownership that "Excuses Block Progression!"
You can be successful! You can trust again! You can pass the class or workshop or certificate that you either have to complete or want to get done. Do not talk yourself out of success! Do not continually to be negative. Just make the choice to change and you will be able to move towards success! You can do this!
Just like a diamond you shine resplendently. Keep Diva's Diamonds close to your heart know that you are already FLAWLESS!
Love, Laughter & Light,
Queen Diva
A little tough love here, eh? :) I was telling my husband the other day that when someone says, "Oh, you are SO patient!" it's because they're making an effort to help themselves, not getting stuck in a cycle of making excuses for why they "can't" do a thing. I have very little patience for people who ask for help but aren't willing to do the work to help themselves. If what they really need is a coach to yell, "Bull----!" when they start making those excuses, and they're self-aware enough to know that, that's fine. But I'm not feeding the hamster stuck on a wheel. (I have my own hamsters - got to spend my time where it's going to do some good.)
ReplyDeleteHey Holly! Thank you so much for stopping by and commenting on my post! My apologies for just now seeing this. I took a break during the last 7 months I was in graduate school. You are absolutely right about what you shared! Patience is set aside for some people but not all. Especially not for those who do not do a thing to deserve your patience and willingness to help and they are not helping themselves. I will post more often! Thank you again for stopping by!
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