Don't Ignore The Red Flags! by Queen Diva
Don't Ignore The Red Flags!! Have you ever been involved with someone and he/she would either talk to you in a demeaning manner and you would just let it slide or make an excuse for their behavior? Or someone is always giving your backhanded compliments and thinks it's cute and try to laugh off saying negative things about you? Those are red flags!
Don't Ignore The Red Flags!! When the people on your job seem secretive and do not include you on major projects and give an excuse why you were not invited to a company event. Or your teacher or church leader calling you out in front of everyone but not in a constructive way but a mean spirited way that just doesn't seem right and you start to second guess yourself?
Don't Ignore The Red Flags!! Call that mean spiritedness out and make those people accountable for their actions! Narcissism is running rampant these days and not a welcomed trait to have. You do not have to take foolishness from ANYONE! Especially if you are a grown adult. You should never be tolerated by people. The people you surround yourself with should celebrate you and you should be celebrating them.
Don't Ignore The Red Flags!! It will only cause you greater pain than what you experience immediately the first time. Mean spiritedness is a very real and it will cause you to be unhappy and resentful of the person and it might even cause you not to want to open up and allow yourself to be close to anyone because of the hurt you can endure when you continually ignore the red flags.
People will only treat you the way that you ALLOW them to treat you! Nip negativity right in the bud so that it will not fester and cause you grief later! I speak from experience working for someone for years who I considered to be a best friend. I ignored the red flags and it was the worst decision I ever made.
Don't Ignore The Red Flags!! Your peace of mind and even your friendship or relationship may depend upon you acknowledging the negativity and adjusting the behavior before it gets worse! If this is not for you please share this with someone you know who is experiencing this. If this message is for you don't beat yourself up for allowing the foolishness to prolong just make the decision now to stay alert and aware when you see a red flag.
Don't Ignore The Read Flags!! I know you got it now! I believe in you if no one else does! You are so awesome whether people around you know it or not! You definitely have better days coming and even better friends and relationships! Stay positive! You got this!
Just like a diamond you shine resplendently. Keep Diva's Diamonds close to your heart and know you are already FLAWLESS!
Love, Laughter and Light,
Queen Diva
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