Being Alone Is Not The Same As Being Lonely!




Today's Diva's Diamonds:

Being Alone Is Not The Same As Being Lonely...The Difference Is Making A Choice!

I shared this today because many people in the world choose to be alone during the holidays and not be around family or friends. It is a time for them to spend time with themselves. PERIOD. There is absolutely nothing wrong with doing that! Many introverts are at peace being alone. When they want to be around people they will make the choice to do so. There is no law that says you MUST be around family and friends. That you must stop what your own plans are for the holidays and do things you really do not want to do, be around people you do not want to be around, go to places you do not want to go nor eat foods you definitely do not want to eat! LOL!

I wanted to touch on this because there are many introverted people who feel bad during the holidays because they are made to feel guilty for not wanting to be around people during the holidays. That should not be the case. Everyone has their comfort zone, need for quiet time and desire to be at peace and why shouldn't someone who chooses to be alone be able to do that.

Peace on Earth and Good will towards Men and Women!

If your desire to is to go to a log cabin in the mountains, fully stock your refrigerator, have internet and cable, a warm fire and hot cocoa by yourself then by all means do it!

(This post is solely for those who know that being alone is not the same as being lonely. I totally understand your desire to do this!)

Enjoy your alone time! But also remember if you become lonely your family and friends will always be waiting in the wings to embrace you just the same! LOL!

Just like a diamond you shine resplendently! Keep Diva's Diamonds close to your heart and know that you are already FLAWLESS!

Love, Laughter & Light,
Queen Diva

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